Your Christmas Gift Buying Guide From Wild Secrets

We asked our Wild Secrets sexperts what the hottest gifts are this holiday season, and they put together this very adult Christmas gift guide. So, if you want to give the gift of love, lust and/or yourself to get your holiday season off to a sensual start, check out the suggestions below. From options for couples, her, him and a selection of risqué Kris Kringle ideas, Wild Secrets has you covered this holiday season.

Gifts For Couples

The Wild Secrets Adventure 24 Day Advent Calendar invites you to make time for your special someone this festive season, and offers amazing value with 24 toys, treats, activities and more all delivered in a luxe, holiday box. With options designed for individuals with vulvas, those with penises, and options for shared enjoyment, the Wild Secrets Advent Calendar invites you to enjoy more than just twelve days this Christmas.

If you're looking at individual toys, the We-Vibe Chorus is an advanced, intuitive couple's vibrator designed to maximise your pleasure during penetrative. The Chorus has an adjustable U-shaped fit, with one end sitting over her clitoris while the other end fits inside her vagina, leaving him plenty of room to enter, while you take the fun to the next level with touch-responsive vibrations and customisable controls.

A more budget friendly option is the Wild Secrets Zest. This wearable, egg-shaped vibrator offers both internal and external stimulation for her, can be discreetly worn beneath clothing, and comes with a wireless remote control with a 10 metre range. We'll leave the rest to your imagination.

For those looking to expand their horizons, we recommend the Adam & Eve 7 Piece Bondage Set. This affordable set provides a range of quality basics to help everyone explore their fantasies with safety and consent - and for those who need it we also have primers on dipping your toe into the waters of bondage and asking for kinky sex.

If that's a bit out there for you that's okay, try putting together a sensual massage kit. It's a promise for a loved one that promises time together - one of the most important things you can give. We have a range of massage oils and lubricants, but our top choice is the JO Sensual Massage gift set. Featuring a massage glide, tea light candle for setting the mood, and a shaped massager, we love that this one comes with a quick start massage guide to give you or your lover some tips and tricks you'll be using long after the candle burns down.

For those in new relationships we have a range of adult games that are both fun and open up the doors for conversations around consent and desire. We love the Any Couples Sex Dice Game and Let's Fool Around 5 dice set in particular. For opposite sex couples, we also enjoy the Year of Kama Sutra, for a gift you can enjoy over the next year. Having said that, there's a game for every occasion, so check out our range of sex games if you're looking for more options.

Gifts For Her

Looking for something for the lady in your life - even if that's you? Here's a a selection of thoughtful and indulgent gifts designed to pamper and spoil her no matter what happens at Christmas lunch.

The Lelo Enigma is the Rolls Royce of sex toys for her, constantly topping the list of staff picks every time we ask. Offering luxurious dual action massage that delights inside and out, this toy uses sonic wave technology to stimulate the clitoris while the flexible shaft targets the g-spot with its bulbous tip. Made from extra-soft silicone with gorgeous metallic plastic accents, Enigma feels as incredible as it looks, and is one of the most powerful and stimulating toys on the market.

For something discreetly stylish and guaranteed to get you on Santa's naughty list, give her a Le Wand Necklace Vibrator. Designed to look just like a decorative pendant when worn around your neck, this fashionable pendant detaches to provide amazing pleasure with 8 whisper quiet vibration modes with a super silent motor. Simply press against your - or your partner's - erogenous zones and enjoy the thrill of discreet pleasure wherever you are.

If you - or the lady you're buying for - enjoys clitoral stimulation, give her something everyone else will want - the Wild Secrets Envy!  Exclusive to Wild Secrets and featuring Satisfyer's legendary Air Pulse technology, the Envy will clit-erally take your breath away with 11 intensities of pressure wave stimulation and 10 vibration functions. The Air Pulses and vibrations are delivered by independent motors so you can enjoy the different sensations separately or simultaneously, just as your body craves.

For something full sized and versatile, we recommend the Adam & Eve Rose Gold Wand Massager. With a silicone head, 10 vibration functions and a stylish white and rose gold design, this is as great on tight or sore muscles as it is on your erogenous zones, and something that won't look out of place if left out on the bedside table.

Gifts For Him

Does a man really have everything without a wide range of multi-purpose toys?

The Satisfyer Men Heat Vibration is a great balance of price, form, and function, offering a smooth silicone interior and a 3 level heating function that warms up to 40⁰C making it feel more like being a with a partner. Add in 70 vibration programs and he'll be spoilt for choice!

For versatile pleasure that works with or without a partner, we recommend the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage. This non-motorised toy is quiet, doesn't require charging or cables, and has a stimulating textured sleeve design that's open at both ends. This makes it ideal for travel, being somewhere with thin walls, or using as something extra during oral sex with a partner. If you're really looking to splurge there's also a Launch mount that turns the Quickshot into an automated stroker so he can have the best of both worlds.

If you - or your man - is exploring prostate play, try Adam's Silicone Prostate Massager. This affordable, ergonomic toy is soft to touch, but firm and stimulating with dual independently controlled motors for prostate and perineal pleasure, so you can have either one individually or both together as you choose.

Alternatively the Lelo Hugo offers premium p-spot pleasure for true aficionados, coming with a sleek metal remote, soft premium silicone and more powerful vibrations. Sitting at the upper end of the price range, Lelo make great gift options in general. They do offer fewer features, but each one is powerful, pleasurable, and it does mean you spend less time cycling through them all to find the one that you really want.

If your man goes soft during sex and wants to last longer, a good C-ring is a great way to help him stress less about potential ED - which in turn will actually make him more likely to stay hard. Our Excite Deluxe Vibrating Couples' Ring provides all of that, as well as a vibrating end that presses up against the clitoris or perineum of the penetrative partner. Coming in a bold blue with a matching remote control, you'll both be able to enjoy this C-ring without having to reach between you to find the controls. 

Kris Kringle Stocking Stuffers

It's that time of year where someone from the work social club gets you to pull a name out of a Santa Hat for this year's Kris Kringle - and you have a budget. Luckily for you, we have a range of budget friendly toys that are good for a laugh - and for your wallet.

Affordable bullet vibrators, like the Screaming O Bass Vibe come in a range of colours and have the added bonus of being both functional and fun. If you know the birthday of the person you're buying for, Curious Candy has a range of birthstone butt plugs that add some bling to the great unwrapping. For a different take, try the Spank Faux Leather Paddle - it features 'spank' written on the actual toy making it a great visual gag as well as an interesting time for whoever ends up taking it home.

Along with various sex dice games we've already mentioned, a lot of the best Kris Kringle options can be found as free gifts from Wild Secrets. If you're buying a more impressive gift for you, your partner, or a friend and you're spending over $100, you can pick up a solid Kris Kringle option for free.

A Little Something Extra

Okay, so you've got the perfect gift - it just looks a little lonely. Go the extra mile by adding in some essentials - like lube. Lube enhances every pleasure experience. Our recommendation is to apply it proactively, even before you think it's necessary, ensuring you can prolong your experience as long as you desire. Few things dampen the mood more than discomfort from scratches or abrasions on your genitals, and using lube serves as a preventive measure to steer clear of such interruptions. A small bottle of water-based lube is a great addition to any sexy gift, and flavoured lubes are great budget gifts.

Cleanup is the flip side of adult gifts we don't always think about - a small bottle of toy cleaner is a thoughtful addition, especially if you expect your gift to get use the night they open it.

To really get into the spirit of Christmas, consider slipping into character with Christmas Lingerie! From cheeky pom pom panties to the Christmas flavoured Lustful Thoughts Teddy and the Ruby Dream babydoll.  Everyone deserves that festive feeling in 2023.

And that concludes our 2023 Christmas Gift Guide! While we're dedicated to offering you our products, it's essential to keep in mind that the most meaningful gifts are those with personal significance to both you and the recipient. Whether it's a shared memory, an inside joke, or something you're aware they adore and wouldn't indulge in personally, the sentiment truly matters.

Take care and enjoy the gift giving season in 2023

Sal x